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Reach Your Goals

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Each New Year brings the chance to start over. For some people they set goals and make New Year resolutions, but less than half of people who make New Year Resolutions actually  fulfill  them. If their goals are really important things they want to do, have, achieve or become, why is it that when they decide what they want (in every area of their lives) they don't get it?  Everyone can come up with a list of reasons why they didn't achieve what they wanted, but we have to learn to think of solutions to our problems, not finding someone or something to blame. This year, stop the cycle of resolving to make change, but then not following through. In this post, I'll give you some tips to help you avoid making the mistakes that prevent many people from achieving their goals (and keep their resolutions) in every area of life. 1. Your Goals MUST Be Yours Decide what you want to accomplish (in every area of life). Don't be concerned about what other...

Every Step Counts

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There is something more important than believing–action. Goals are not a wish; they are a vivid dream acted on. Understand that no goal can ever be achieved by wishful thinking or desire not followed by (painful) effort. We have to s top the mindless wishing that things would be different. Rather than wasting time and emotional and spiritual energy in explaining why we don't have what we want, we can start to pursue other ways to get it. The problem is that it is often difficult to put one’s thoughts into action. As a result, the world is so full of dreamers and there aren’t enough people who will move ahead and begin to take steps (in the right direction) to achieve their dreams/goals (in every area of their lives). Moreover, many people tend to spend most of their time talking about their goals and plans but few are taking the steps necessary (each day) to make their dreams a reality (in every area of their lives). Many of us spend half our time wishing for thi...

Love the Effort You Must Exert to Get What You Want

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Anyone who deeply desires to do/ have/ achieve/ or become anything (in every area of their life) LOVES the effort which he/she MUST exert to obtain their desire. Developing a strong desire to achieve/ get what you want (in every area of your life) is NOT enough — it MUST be paid for in strokes of daily effort. The problem is that many people have a strong desire to do/ achieve/ have something but are reluctant to pay the price in daily effort . They have tremendous desires which they wish to obtain by wishful thinking or by having someone else make it easy for them. As a result, you see other characteristics in their features: you see laziness , weakness , and frustration there. You do not see in such a face the strength of a man/ woman who will go out there to get what he/ she wants with love of every effort of it. "Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business and to work with your hands…so that your daily life may win the respect of outsider...